Saturday, May 11, 2013

"Tip" of the Week

This week is a classic: red! A girl can never go wrong with red. It matches with pretty much everything, it's bright, it's beautiful on any skin tone and it always seems to make you feel just a little bit more sexy when you have it on. This red beauty is one of my favorite reds of all time: OPI Big Apple Red. My mom discovered it at the nail salon we usually go to years ago. After I saw how nice this red was I went out and bought a bottle at my local nail supply. Instant classic for my mother and I. Looks great on the toes and hands and I truly believe you can wear it any time of the year. It's like the black of clothes, it can be worn anytime with anything!


                                       

Friday, May 10, 2013

Rewind. Play.

I don't know about you but I do love movies. It's an escape from reality for about two hours, it's an inspiration, it can make you happy, sad, scared or just plain fun. Including every one's individual favorite movies there are always a few movies that you can watch no matter what time of day and no matter when you catch it. These movies aren't always necessarily your all time favorite but they are the movies that make your top VERY re-watchable movies! Does that ever happen to you? I always wondered why channels bother playing movies on TV with all the technology available nowadays, why watch a movie with commercials? I answered this question for myself the other.

There is nothing like flipping through the hundreds of channels now available and not being able to find one thing to watch (so frustrating!) until viola! one of your favorite movies is on TV!! Even though you are aware that it involves commercials you stop to watch it, even if it's half way, a quarter of the way, edited, you will stop to watch it. I believe it's a psychological trigger; you see the name of the movie on your guide and your mind is automatically happy because something you really enjoy watching is actually on.

Naturally, everyone has their own set of movies they will stop to watch. Mine are as follows:

  • The Shining
  • Mean Girls
  • Mrs. Doubtfire
  • The Karate Kid (old and new)
  • Gran Torino
  • Casino Royale
  • Golden Eye
  • Tangled
  • Sex and the City Movie
  • He's Not That Into You
  • Forrest Gump
  • Breakfast Club
  • Batman Begins
  • Pirates of the Caribbean 
I'm sure I'm missing a few however these are definitely my top re-watchable movies. What are yours??


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

As Seen on TV!

Unfortunately, I am a fan of As Seen on TV merchandise because believe it or not it can sometimes be a great product! I have a few in my home one being this great item: Swivel Store. Now this item is meant to be a spice rack, but when I saw it at Bed Bath and Beyond a thought occurred to me. I have been wanting a storage solution to my nail polish collection since I have been just dumping them in a basket I had. They were harder to reach and see what color was what plus the basket was taking up a lot of space. Once I saw this a light bulb lit above my head. Ah ha!! I quickly went to the beauty section of my local Bed Bath and Beyond, took an Essie bottle over to the Swivel Store: VIOLA! Perfect fit. I had just found my solution to my nail polish storage issue. The best part is the way the shelves slide out to make it even easier to see your polishes (pictured below). Naturally, being as anal as I am I stored all my polish by colors and at the same time I did some spring cleaning to make room for newer, future colors! The shelves store very nicely as well not taking up any room, very slim. It's the best As Seen on TV item I have ever had! So ladies, here is your solution if you have a polish storage issue like me. You can find this item at Bed Bath and Beyond, Ross and Marshalls (perhaps there are more places that sell them)!

Have fun!





Monday, May 6, 2013

New Wave


I am a total 80s freak! Everyday that goes by I truly wish I was my age in the 80s. I would be having the time of my life going to the clubs, dancing all night to that awesome pop/new wave music of the time. Music back then had power, it was new, it was fun, it was positive, it was catchy, so much so that you can still hear it today. The music of the 80s has enough power to continue being popular through all the eras of music.

I generally love all 80s music from the rock to the new wave but the new wave/pop is definitely my favorite. New wave has a pop catchy sound with a hint of darkness or industrial sound such as Depeche Mode. I can never get enough (no pun intended... Depeche Mode has a song called I Just Can't Get Enough) and no matter how many times I hear an 80s song I never seem to get tired of it. When a song comes on the radio I raise the volume and get excited as if it were something new. I can't imagine what it was like hearing these songs for the first time back then... again it was something new and fun. Everyone seemed to equally enough the music of the time unlike now where people are divided by music; you're either a rocker or rapper. Music united people then which is the power that music should have and all in a positive way!

My cousins are the ones to thank for this 80s inspiration. I'll never forget watching the Wedding Singer with them as a kid and they had the soundtrack (all 80s) which we jammed to the next day going to Taco Bell. I fell in love. However, to this day I cannot pick my favorite 80s song, it's too hard, there are too many, nor my favorite artist. All the songs and artists contributed to the 80s era in their own way making them all pretty significant.

Here are a few of my favorite songs:
The Outfield - Your Love
Bananarama - Cruel Summer
Yaz - Situation
Depeche Mode - I Just Can't Get Enough
Michael Jackson - Beat It
Aha - Take on Me
Dead or Alive - You Spin Me
Culture Club - Karma Chameleon
Madonna - Holiday
Wham! - Everything She Wants
Devo - Whip It
Tears for Fears - Everybody Wants to Rule the World
Simple Minds - Don't You Forget About Me
Modern English - I Melt with You
Soft Cell - Tainted Love
Kajagoogoo - Too Shy
Duran Duran - Rio
Men Without Hats - Safety Dance
Men at Work - Down Under
The Buggles - Video Killed the Radio Star
Human League - Don't You Want Me
Billy Idol - Rebel Yell
The Romantics - Talking in Your Sleep
New Order - Blue Monday
Dexy's Midnight Runners - Come On Eileen
Eurthymics - Sweet Dreams
The Cars - You Might Think
Animotion - Obsession
After the Fire - Der Kommissar
The Fixx - One Thing Leads to Another

AH and so many more that I can't think of at the moment! I don't think anything will ever match or beat the music of the 80s. I like some of today's modern music but it doesn't have that staying power of the 80s, the new-ness that mesmerizes the entire world. When I hear 80s music I see myself dancing the night away dressed with wild, colorful fashion and big hair with a lot of make -up and coming home at 5am. If only I had a Delorean...!

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

"Tip" of the Week

This week I was a little daring to try something new. Sally Hansen Salon Effects French Mani strips with a twist. It is not a tradition French mani it is with a black tip and natural nail color. It's a little hard to get used to but it is cute and a bit edgy from the traditional. The Sally Hansen strips are very innovative however they are a bit frustrating to apply to ones own nails. It is very time consuming although the result is pretty seamless. I have had it on since Saturday and so far no major chips. It is very pretty to stare at because it also comes out close to salon perfect without messy bottles or brushes!



Monday, April 22, 2013

Sounds

There are sounds that I just love. I'm not talking about music, but everyday sounds that maybe not everyone thinks about or notice but they are there. What are mine?

One sounds I really like is the sound of typing. However, it has to be from a specific keyboard. While I am a Mac user the typing sound I like are from older PC keyboards. Growing up the sound of typing meant you had a job, that you were important. Of course nowadays typing is an everyday occurrence for almost everyone in the world at home or work. There is something about that clicking noise that I've always found soothing.



The next sound I like but have never really heard in real life in camp fire or fire in a fire place. The crackling sound is also soothing and have always found it to be warming... naturally it is of course because it's fire! I've only heard this sound on TV or movies. It has a ambiance of romance although at the same time of horror. I have always wanted to start a camp fire just hear the crackling of the fire and to feel the warmth.


Next are the sound of high heels on any walking surface. I like the clicking sound. Again, for me as a child, that sound meant an adult woman, a powerful woman, a pretty woman, a successful woman. Funny now that I am able to wear heels I don't wear them that often nor do I like the sound when I have them on. 


I also like the sound of creaking wood such as stairs, doors, floor boards, etc. That sound is cool to me. It reminds me of rustic, old and/or something scary... because apparently almost all horror movies have some kind of old, creaking wood somewhere! 




These are my top four sounds that I love. What sounds do you like? Think about it. You hear possibly thousands of sounds a day there must be one that sticks out to you. It could be a bird, cars, the ocean, almost anything. There are probably more sounds I like but can't think of them at the moment because I'm actually sitting down to write about it (that always happens!). Next time you're out and about, listen up! 




Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Teenage Wasteland

Ah your teenage years, even at 25 they seem very far, way far in the past already. Events have become a blur but some moments have stayed true in my memory bank. The drama of those years are, what I believe, shape us into the adults we eventually become. All the stupid or smart decisions curve our future and our personalities. I can honestly say I don't miss those teenage years too much, but I do remember while being a teenager adults saying how annoying teens are in general or how they have no regard for anything. It felt like being a teenager was being a different species, as if for about 7 years teens are out casted from humanity. Come back when you hit twenty!

I never understood why adults seemed to feel this way until most recently. I went to the movies on Saturday with my boyfriend, which of course like all generations is a hang out haven for pre-teens and teens. We buy our tickets, find our theater and before the movie starts I head to the restroom. Now it is about 7:15pm, most of the time the movies start getting full after 8pm but for some reason there was a long line in the women's restroom! I've also never understood why girls/women need to flock to the bathroom together... Anyway, a group of 5 girls were in front of me, chit chatting, giggling, talking about "officially going out with a guy,"not paying attention, and holding up the line. One of the girls from the group goes to use a stall. Someone else steps out of their stall indicating "I'm done!" so that usually means step right up to whoever is next in line. The remaining 4 girls in front of me continue to stand in line talking, I finally ask if they are waiting in line. First they give me an annoyed look and say "No we're not waiting." Then why are you in line????? The women behind me were also frustrated with the teenage hen group because it is unnecessary to stand in line when you have no intention of using the restroom and holding up the line! What bothered me the most was the attitude. When I went to wash my hands and heading out of the restroom is when the waiting group says "I'm going to wait outside."

Something that is irritating is paying $20 for a movie, a rated R movie that somehow teens get into and ruin. I'm paying to watch a horror movie, for example, to be scared, to have fun, but it's not as fun when you have teenagers laughing at inappropriate moments or yelling across the theater making "jokes" or talking really loud to their friends. Even as a teenager I hated when others acted that way during a movie. I don't remember being that way with my friends, but maybe we were. Maybe it's a phase that everyone has to go through because you can get away with it.

Nothing beats seeing a teenager at the mall or anywhere really carrying a designer purse and expensive phones. Why? Teens don't need these things. I didn't know nor care for designer anything when I was 13 or 17 years old because it didn't matter. Every generation seems to be getting spoiled more than the previous.

Thinking this way makes me feel old or maybe just intolerant because that's the way I feel. I have no patience for this kind of behavior. With new technology comes different generations and different "teenager breeds." We better hold on tight!

Monday, April 15, 2013

Rainy Monday

Being a Floridian you would think I am used to the rain... not so much. The rain in Florida particularly in Miami is just plain annoying. There is no other word for it. Annoying!



I have, what I like to call, an irrational anger towards rain. Every time it rains (unless I'm being lazy at home) it gets me so angry. Why? Rain ruins everything. It ruins a day out. Everything gets wet and cold, your shoes get soaked to the point that your feet are like prunes. Umbrellas do not really do anything neither do ponchos. Perfect example: last Thursday my boyfriend, his friend and I went down to Key West to take out his new flats boat. The day started out beautiful, clear, sunny. Once noon hit BAM! it started to rain little by little then it just poured. We were still in the boat with this down pour, everything got soaked including us and I did not wear a bathing suit, I was wearing cotton which you know does not dry like the swimsuit material. Naturally, when it pours it gets cold. I was in a tank top and with all of our towels soaked through there was nothing to keep me warm or dry. I was so pissed! I was angry because I was soaked through and cold but also because it cut our day short.

Rain makes running errands even more of a hassle. I try to make running errands as fun as possible however when the rain rains on my parade it just sucks. Your merchandise gets wet, you can't leave the mall or the supermarket because it is literally hurricane rain that is pouring down on us. It rains so hard that it creates small floods.

Rain also disrupts the laundry process. I own a washer and dryer but dryers do use up quite a bit of electricity thus I line dry larger pieces such as comforters, towels, sheets, etc. When rain is on the horizon it's a bit difficult to line dry; to that I'd like to add that in consequence rain is also expensive because the rain does not allow me to line dry it means I have to use the dryer which increases my light bill.

Rain also causes leaks, which is the worst. You know what that means, more expenses!

Let's say you make an expensive, exciting trip to Disney World or Universal Studios, but hey guess what, it rains! Do you know how irritating it is to be at the happiest place on Earth and it rains the whole time? You spend time and money planning these trips for it to just endlessly rain. Most of the time it rains all day in this endless drizzles that may not seem like a lot of rain but let me tell you it is. You have to resort to ponchos that are not comfortable and somehow get you wet too.

Of course, I really have to be girly about this comment and say that rain also ruins your hair, your clothes, your shoes, your make-up; it's a girl's worse nightmare. You'd think by now I would have bought a proper rain coat or rain boots... nope! Never owned a pair in my 25 years as a Floridian, probably never will. It seems like our summer this year is going to be a hot one which also means a lot of rain. Daily afternoon showers, random hurricane rain, gusts of wind, thunder storms and more ruining of days.

In conclusion to this angry rant, rain is just annoying, expensive, a day wrecker, wet and cold. Although I will stand that it is great for the environment, it is not good for my day.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Tip of the Week

This week I'm wearing Essie Come Here! Yes, it's really called Come Here! with an exclamation point hehe. The color as always is awesome. To me Essie never seems to fail. Their colors are glossy and have great pigment.
This color is from their new spring collection, I believe; I'm not sure because at the beauty supply there are so many colors and collections by the time I arrive at home I forgot what collections they are from. The point is, this is an orange based color; great for spring but for me best for summer! Definitely a repeat in color for this summer.
Oh! This color looks very cute on toes!!

Monday, April 8, 2013

Nugget Wars

Almost everyone likes chicken nuggets; kids and adults alike. I know I'm one of them! The question is, who has the best chicken nuggets in the fast food chains?? I am going to stick to the famous trio: McDonalds. Burger King or Wendy's.

So to refresh your memory here is what they look like:

McDonalds:

Burger King:

Wendy's:

I do enjoy some good fast food nuggets, so here is my run down on my personal favs of the famous trio.
McDonalds: Growing up these were my absolute favorite nuggets. Something about their texture especially when drenched in sweet and sour sauce...but only the sweet and sour sauce from McDonalds. As a kid, these were the only nuggets I would have until I started to grow up. I did notice that when I took a bite from the nuggets it did look odd on the inside; it sure didn't remind me of chicken. What is worse, is when McDonalds advertised one year that their chicken nuggets "Now contain REAL chicken breast." What the....???? What was I eating before?! I lost a little respect for that nugget for a long time, but now I'm over it and I eat it from time to time...when I'm not devouring a Big Mac instead!

Burger King: Ok, so Burger King's Whoppers are the bomb, their nuggets not so much. Every time I give their nuggets a chance they just disappoint. The nuggets always taste as though they are literally taken out of the freezer and not fried but microwaved. They always taste soggy, at least to me, maybe it's my luck. Also, does anyone remember when BK nuggets were shaped like crowns???
Now that is just weird. How did they manage to do that? It's already hard to imagine how nuggets are formed/shaped but now they are in crown shape. Do they have a cookie cutter or something?? Just plain weird. 

Wendy's: Alas, Wendy's chicken nuggets. Crispy outside with a tender, juicy center with some honey mustard. Yeah Wendy's takes the crown in nuggets. These are the nuggets that should be shaped like crowns! These nuggets are always satisfying plus they taste pretty darn real or as real as it could get for fast food. The price is always right and you have a choice of getting them spicy. Honey mustard or sweet n' sour are my personal favorite sauces for Wendy's nuggets. They also go well with french fries, side salad, baked potato, frosty, chili and just about anything. I crave these often because they are so good. 

That is my review of the famous trio's nuggets. Until one of them re-invents their nuggets, Wendy's will remain victorious forever! 


Saturday, April 6, 2013

"Tip" of the Week

This week I went with a delicate pink. It's from OPI's Oz collection: I Theodora You. In the bottle the pink looks great but I was worried the color would be sheer as I've had many issues with light pinks being too sheer.

However, this pink is very delicate, feminine and not at all sheer. I think it would be nice for a French manicure too. The pink is perfect for everyday wear and day to night wear.

I highly recommend this color!



Wednesday, April 3, 2013

A Peaceful Moment


Today during my lunch break I went somewhere different. Now I don't mean somewhere different to eat or shop. I decided to pay a visit to my grandma and grandpa at the cemetery. Ironically, my newer job may be far from home but the cemetery is literally 4 minutes away, which in an odd way is home. It's home because a part of me is there with my grandparents.

Cemeteries are usually pronounced wrong (guilty), are found creepy and sad. While I must agree with the latter, they are also surprising peaceful. It's the middle of the week so it was empty, a few scattered people but in the area my grandparents were I was alone. I had eaten a late breakfast at work thus I took the opportunity to get out of the office. I first stopped at Walgreens to pick up a few things one of those being a Word Search puzzle book. I drove to the cemetery and I haven't been there in years... but I still knew the way to the grave. The minute I turned into the cemetery I already felt at peace. I parked and walked to the grave site with the sounds of wind chimes, the gentle breeze blowing, the smell of flowers.

My grandparents are not buried in the ground they are in a wall tomb so to speak, all the way to the top right corner. As I sat down on the bench in front of the wall I began to cry... there are days where it is harder to not have them here. There are days when I need their advice, to maybe just hear their voice. There are days when I need to know they are not disappointed in me and today was one of those days. My grandfather I did not know for long (4 years) because cancer won, but my grandmother I was close to. I remember her but her voice has faded, her mannerisms... I wish I could just hear and see her.

After I let go, I realized how quiet it was, peaceful, beautiful in a way. I took out the Word Search booklet and started. My grandma loved those. We would do them together, she taught me tricks on how to find words faster and it kept the brain sharp. She would go through those books like milk, two books a week probably. I even bought her as a Christmas present a subscription! I felt it was symbolic and appropriate to take a word search to the cemetery. I thought maybe it would be a connection, a link and also I think she'd find it funny. I felt being on my phone would be disrespectful.

In a hectic work day, this peaceful moment was just what I needed. I hope they heard what I had to say, I hope they know how much I love and miss them, I hope there was a connection spiritually that I cannot see.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Food That is Comforting

Comfort food...it's my favorite type of food. It's food I can eat everyday of my life and be content. There are many varieties of comfort food. Many cultures of comfort food. Comfort food is delicious and more importantly, it's food that is comforting.

Today I had a bad day at work. It was the Monday after a long weekend, it was Monday in general and like many people on this Earth, I just don't like my job. Although I listened to my favorite 80s tunes on the way to my 9-5 it didn't stop the morning from crumbling. I set time goals through the work day to make the day go by slightly faster. My first goal is to get to lunch. Ah that glorious hour break from the office. Then after lunch you're half way through. Then comes the 3pm stretch with only two hours to go and usually a snack to accompany it. Finally it's 5! Snatch up your purse and go.

Anyways, I have digressed but that is the point of blogs, right? So as it hit 10:30am I already started thinking about lunch. Since I can't do personal research at work I asked my mom to find one of my favorite foods nearby: Cuban. I was feeling crummy so I thought Cuban food would do the trick. She found a local cafeteria with excellent reviews, sent me the address and when noon hit I was out that door. It took me a while to find this cafeteria but I finally did. When I stepped inside it was a small, quaint restaurant with nice, homey people. I read the specials of the day and saw two of my favorite: Picadillo(a somewhat ground beef hash) and chicharro(split pea soup)! I was very happy. For $7.50 I got a whole plate of food, bread, small cup of soup plus left overs (pictured below)!

The food comforted me in a way I can't explain. The food reminded me of my grandmother, my mom, my culture. It hit the right spot in my stomach and made chemicals in my brain ignite with happiness. The food felt like the hug I needed at that moment from a loved one. That is the true meaning of comfort food...at least to me. Food that hugs you. Food that brings you home. Food that can bright your day or at least an hour of your day even if it's terrible. That is why food that is comforting is my favorite.

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter

Happy Easter to everyone on this lovely Sunday. Here in Florida it is actually a beautiful day. Clear blue skies, sunny but still breezy enough to not make us melt. Today is the day of bunnies, spiral hams, church, eggs, candy, baskets, egg hunts and family reunions.



I personally have never found the point of Easter... maybe only when I was in elementary school because the Easter egg hunts were actually really fun, I remember that. My grandma always had an Easter basket waiting for me at her house that the "Easter Bunny" left for me filled with candies and a white bunny plush. 
However, as you get older Easter just seems to be a waste of time. A waste of money. Easter's true meaning has been lost for years...I don't think Jesus would appreciate being replaced with a cute white bunny. I'm not overly religious but some things should be respected. In the Christian world, Easter has a meaning, it has a story, it has symbolism. If I was a true religious woman I would be offended. We spend so much money on candy, eggs, toys, baskets and who knows what to make Easter great when it should just be all avoided and just have a family reunion and eat. It's another excuse to spend money and expect gifts from other people. 
For example, I am going to a family gathering today involving children. If I show up empty handed it's frowned upon. Ridiculous! Granted this truly more of a "holiday" for children but this isn't Christmas either. Still getting over Christmas! 

Either way Easter cannot be avoided for as long as we are on this planet, so with that I wish everyone a safe and Happy Easter! 

Friday, March 29, 2013

Everybody Wants to Rule the World

Or do they?

I don't really know what Tears for Fears were singing about in their 80s hit "Everybody Wants to Rule the World." I can say that they made a song that I'm assuming many liked in the 80s but it's a song that, to me, brings back a great memory that will always be tied to this one song. Does that happen to a lot of people? Do you have a song or songs that you attach to memories and that no matter how many years later you hear the song again the memory replays like it was happening all over again? I know I do. It could be good or bad, happy or sad. 

Every time I hear this song I go back to high school. I was part of a tight knit group of friends (the only girl too) and we were in our senior year with one junior hanging out with us. I'll never forget one of my friends coming over to my house with a Greatest Hits CD of the 80s. He said "You're going to love this if you love 80s music!" That Friday night we were getting ready to head out in my old 1990 BMW. I was the only one with a car so everyone cramped in. We started to drive out of the neighborhood with the radio on when my friend reminded me of the Greatest Hits CD; he popped it in the CD player and this was the first song on the track. The song had a mesmerizing affect because everyone stopped talking and started jamming. We rolled the windows down and sang out loud as if we were kids in the 80s. It was like a scene straight out of an 80s movie. 

It's moment stuck in time that makes me feel good no matter how old it is. I heard the song earlier this week , had the flash back and decided to share it with you since I believe music has the music to stir good things. 

I leave you with a link to the song/music video of: Everybody Wants to Rule the World

Enjoy :-)

"Tip" of the Week

I love nail polish and I change the color pretty much every week!
So I will be including you in my weekly change of polish colors which by the way is one of my obsessions.
This week I chose this cute, bright pink color from Maybelline. It's from their Color Show collection and the name of the color is: Pink Shock 200. It really is shocking. I don't think the picture does it any justice but it is a perfect spring more so summer color. It is a very bright, fun color. It looks really cute on the toes too! With two coats you'll get the full effect of color. I've had it on for two days and it hasn't chipped yet either; us ladies know that is a definite plus!
I recommend this color for a fun spring/summer bright :-)

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Crazy Cat Lady

One thing you must know about me right off the bat is this: I'm obsessed with cats and more so my cats!

They are my three caballeros (which means men) and all three have a different personality to love or if you're me obsess over.

O'Malley is my baby. He is the original of the three, the oldest, the leader! He is a fluffy, green eyed, tuxedo cat who seems to be wearing a mask so there is a sense of mystery to him with a spunky personality. He's not that nice but when he gets to know you he is sweet. He does not meow he "purrrrmeows". That's literally what he sounds like. It makes me giggle. He greets me at the door everyday without fail and when I'm late he's looking out the window for me...adorable or what? He is elegant and sleek with the perfect pink kitty nose with very long whiskers. He may be a pain but he knows me and when something is wrong with me he reacts. One afternoon I was upset, crying; he walked up to me, looked at me, meowed as if to say "what's wrong?" And jumped on my lap, lied down and started to purr. I melted. I love when he actually cuddles with me because he is one comfy kitty!

Crush is the skinny cheetah looking kitty. He is exactly that, my little cheetah. I saved him together with my mom on a rainy afternoon. He was stuck in between our fence with no way out. He was so small he fit in ONE of my hands. My dog at the time Lucy found him. She was a basset hound, so she followed the sounds of his little help me meows. The fence is wood and taller than both my mom and I. After trail and error with a broom and scooper I got him out! He was...is adorable. His markings in his fur are symmetrical and unique to any orange cat I've seen PLUS he has freckles!! In his mouth! He was a sweet kitten, very playful. He is agile and always seems like he's stalking prey or hunting. He is one year apart from O'Malley and they grew up together like brothers. Although he has grown distant and a bit particular lately he is still sweet. He loves to snuggle up. Most mornings I find him either next to me or by my feet.

The last one is my little fatty Dexter. Yes like the show...I was obsessed with it at the time. I also found him as a kitten in my backyard. He fell in the pool while running to get a bite to eat of human food we were all offering him. He stuck. He was and continues to be very affectionate. He without fail sleeps on my pillow every night and gives me a "massage" every morning (unfortunately at 6am). He is very skiddish though and literally lives up to the saying scardy cat! He has a sad meow even a sad expression but he's a cutie pie.

Cats may not be as enthusiastic as dogs I will admit that but they are loving. I have a connection with my cats. They are extremely playful which is always fun to witness and proof of that is all these cat videos on YouTube! They warm up my heart because at the end of the day they love me unconditionally without fail or end. The love of a pet should be experienced by everyone. There is nothing like it; it's pure love :-)



Tuesday, March 26, 2013

To Blog or Not to Blog...

The answer is yes!

I'm back. I had a blog in the past so I'm familiar to the world of blogging but that blog is an old me...so delete!

Blogging, journaling, writing, diary keeping all of it, I believe it to be a healthy form of expression. I have been journaling since I was in elementary school. However, I did stop once college hit but I hope this will be my new journal outlet. I always found it therapeutic to write down feelings, memories, events, good and bad times because whether good or bad it is good to be able to reflect on yourself. I remember when I found my old journal from middle school...wow how you change. You can see yourself grow, which is always fascinating. I went from writing about cute boys and girlfriend drama to now real life problems like paying the light bill. Our 6th grade English teacher had us keep an in-class journal for our whole school year. At the end of the year she had us gift wrap it and label it with "Do not open until the end of 8th grade!" It was one of the neatest projects I have done at school. I put that journal away in a drawer and unfortunately forgot about it until high school. WOW! It was actually better opening it much later because I was so different at 12 years old than at 17 when I opened it. Even my friends changed. This is a great idea for kids!

Journaling is also good for when you're angry (for us crazy adults). Write things down. Read them over. Read them again. Before sending that angry e-mail or text message or even before you make that angry call. It can display some irrational thoughts produced by anger. It can prioritize what you'd really say over what you WANT to say (on impulse).

If you have ever kept a journal, go back and read it. You'll be surprised at how you have changed. Sometimes I believe we don't think we have changed...oh but we have!

So yes to blogging and journaling and all forms of expressive writing! Welcome to E's Little World :-)